FIlm 'Rachel Getting Married' Both a Celebratory, Pain-Stricken Look Into Family Relations
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Category: Arts & Entertainment > Film & Television
Misery, drug rehabilitation and dysfunctional families are always fun-as
long as they're not yours. It's a favorite box office formula to jerk the
heartstrings, and it's no secret. "Rachel Getting Married" plays on these
conventional themes, but it resonates with an off-kilter and graceful
modesty. The ingenuity of direction and Anne Hathaway's performance lift
this indie film onto the shelf of Oscar-buzzing, high-end dramas.
The story is not as simple as the title suggests. The eldest daughter,
Rachel (Rosemarie DeWitt) of the splintered Buchman family is getting
married to an African-American musician, Sydney (Tunde Adebimpe, the lead
singer of TV on the Radio), and the whole happily rambling hodgepodge of
the interracial family celebrates under one humble Connecticut roof. The
title belies the dark and toxic core of the film that is Rachel's younger
sister, Kym (Hathaway)-who had just been released from her latest stint in
rehab. Monochrome-clad, cigarette puffing and tattoo-bearing, Hathaway no
longer plays princess but a very black sheep that seemed to have stumbled
out of a Keraouc novel.
As the fretful father (Bill Irwin), the removed mother (Debra Winger), and
the two sisters navigate back into each other's lives, they set off
painful and (often violent) time bombs. Against the colorful backdrop of a
bohemian wedding and the circus-band's wafting string ballads, the gaping
wound of a tragic past is vaulting. Writer Jenny Lumet's story aches with
a Baumbach melody where all the characters falter and fail in their own
selfish and dysfunctional mess. Unapologetically abrasive, Kym is not
entirely likable. It is not until the last quarter when we finally see
past her self-inflicted black eye and bad haircut, and see a coltish
beauty, bucking and buckling at every bad opportunity.
As grave as the film is, it is not without humor or gala. The neurotic
bride-to-be and her hyper-waspy best friend attack Kym as a "visiting
sociopath," who is herself armed with brazen rehab jokes and is prone to
hysterical bouts of second-child malady. Diverting dangerous cliches,
Demme effortlessly captures the creme de la creme of family malfunction
with a shaky handheld camera. With grainy textures and rough cuts, Demme's
home-spun film radiates with shameless honesty. He masterfully captures a
claustrophobic landscape of eclectic yet homely characters and their array
of idiosyncrasies. The non-dramatic camerawork is matched by the
unaffected and natural performances of the actors. They don't seem to
belong to Hollywood's sparkly bastion, albeit class act Debra Winger and
her subtle yet heartbreaking performance as the frigid and despondent
matriarch.
The Indian-style wedding fete, as the intermission of the high drama,
disrupts the momentum and decelerates the film into what feels like a
drug-induced escapade, replete with live music, dancing and swirling
panoramas. Ultimately this hyper-stylized and chaotically rich sequence
distracts rather than complements the familial anarchy. And Sydney's a
cappella number of Neil Young during wedding vows could have been saved
for the DVD's special feature section. Other than outbursts of song, the
outbursts of violent emotion rival the firework explosions and urban
destruction of a Spielberg flick. The confrontations are abusive and
jarring. Although Demme has a gripping command of high intensity scenes,
subtlety was the main missing ingredient. Kym lacked it, and so did her
fiery battles.
The story is one of both celebration and heartbreak, and Demme tells it
well. He also tells us that misery is good but catharsis better. The
tragedy is anchored in the characters' inability to change and recover.
Although the characters fail, the film delivers intelligence and brims
with the grit and dirt of a recovering family.
Put Tunde Adebimpe's performance in the special features section with Amanda at abao@dailycal.org.
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