Sex without regrets

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If you talk about sex, you automatically become “the sex person.” Suddenly, I am no longer a prospective engineer or an amateur singer, but I am merely conflated to “that person who overshares her sexual experiences.”
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An X-rated lesson

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The truth is, even though I was probably afraid of penises most of all, I was still pretty terrified of bodies in general at that point, including my own.
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Polishing the pearl

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There’s also tends to be a lot more stigma surrounding masturbation for people without penises, like it’s somehow uncouth to touch yourself if you’ve got a vagina.
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Let it grow

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I don’t trim, shave or wax because I don’t like to — it makes my whole downstairs area super itchy and uncomfortable.
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Piss or pleasure?

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Much like the G-spot, squirting is like an elusive unicorn of sex — many people think it’s like a mythical creature that exists only in unrealistic porn depictions.
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Seeking nuttier flavors

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Partners that respect one another harm and dominate each other safely, sanely and consensually — and then extend that respect further through the aftercare that they provide each other.
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Hitting a wall

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I hope that I can experience sex. I want to. But I’m also trying to be kind to myself and my body and to accept it as it is.
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To disclose or not to disclose?

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Choosing to disclose virginity status is a very personal decision, and it frustrates me when people try to make it for me. As a virgin, it’s up to me to decide when, how and why I do or don’t want to disclose to a partner.
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