femsex_Hannah

FemSex DeCal: A space to share your story

To a casual viewer, the basic idea behind FemSex can seem to be spelled out pretty clearly in the name. Fem: related to womxn. Sex: well, that’s self-explanatory. But to assume that that’s the whole story when it comes to this DeCal would be reductive. Though FemSex definitely wants to
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Hiding and seeking without shame

Safe, Sane and Consensual

What if we expanded and improved on that small student bubble of safety to create a society without shame — a collective community, where we meet others and ourselves with acceptance rather than judgment? An idyllic world playground filled with self-aware individuals, who teach children how to love themselves, to honor their bodies, whatever shape they come in, and to honor their preferences, whatever gender or sexuality or fluid, indefinable package they appear in.
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Stacey-Nguyen-full

Just another feminist rant

Theoretical Titillation

Now, usually, I would present a single, parable-ish narrative that highlights the existence of the patriarchy. But over the past few years, I’ve found it hard to only talk about one uncomfortable experience because there have been so many.
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Brett-Tanonaka-mug

Diverse perspectives enhance discourse around sex

Sex on Tuesday

Over the course of the semester, my columns have been the subject of a bit of controversy: I’ve been praised for their content and, at the same time, have faced accusations of sexism and misogyny from friends, colleagues and the public. Generally, the reactions to my columns have been polarizing.
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Brett-Tanonaka-mug

Not all sex is created equal

Sex on Tuesday

We’ve all come to hear it in some form or another. “I just want to fuck around,” and, “I want to find someone to make love to.” Aren’t they saying the same thing? I mean, fucking is having sex, and making love is having sex. According to basic math, that
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Vi-Nguyen-online

Cisgender bias and airline miles

Sex on Tuesday

I have always bought my own airline tickets home for Thanksgiving, always easily selected “female” rather than “male” for my gender on the drop-down menu. Not until recently did these narrow choices strike me as limiting. Last week was Transgender Awareness Week. According to a 2011 survey, more than 700,000
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Vi-Nguyen-online

Where are all the straight dudes?

Sex on Tuesday

The sex column world is lacking a straight dude voice. The Daily Cal hasn’t had a male Sex on Tuesday columnist since Mustafa Shaikh in 2010. From some intensive googling, it’s pretty clear the majority of sex columns today are written by female-identified authors of various sexual orientations, along with
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