There is no “normal” in sex. We’re conditioned to believe that sex is black and white and that there is a right and wrong way to act, talk and feel about it. But sex, much like life, is messy and is so much more enjoyable that way. This diversity in experience is what makes sex so cool.
Whatever turns you on is just as awesome and valid as whatever turns anyone else on. Don’t yuck anyone’s yum — unless it’s not consensual. Sexuality is a spectrum that isn’t constant, and there are multiple shades to your own sexuality. It’s learning to embrace all of these distinct parts of ourselves that leads us to discover, accept and love our sexual selves.
We can either see these boundless possibilities all as shades of gray, or we can see them as a colorful celebration of sex-ploration and diversity.