Have a hot girl summer
Sex on Tuesday
When a woman wants to have casual sex, do we need a term for it? Are phrases like “hoe phase” or “hot girl summer” attempts to justify our sex lives?
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Sleeping with a stranger
Sex on Tuesday
People often say there is so much you can learn from strangers. I’ve found that to be especially true in having sex with them.
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Sexualizing the self
Sex on Tuesday
Part of being hyperaware of your body from a young age comes with an underlying sense of hatred. I hated feeling eyes on my body.
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Pass the sugar
Sex on Tuesday
Being a sugar baby goes beyond just superficial beauty. It’s almost a talent, a display of confidence, to capitalize on men’s desires to fulfill a “daddy” or protector role.
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One step a-head
Sex on Tuesday
If his head game is weak, he better believe I’ll be matching it, and if his head game is nonexistent, as is often the case, mine will be, too.
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Total domination?
Sex on Tuesday
Giving up your power isn’t necessarily a bad thing. And as I’ve come to learn, there’s not such a strict line between dominance and submission.
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A fear of porn
Sex on Tuesday
With the resources I needed to escape the toxic world of women’s debasement for male enjoyment, I could enter into my own porn world.
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Condom conundrums
Sex on Tuesday
I’d underestimated the determination of a “no condom” male. There’s always a loophole, even if it means quickly yanking the condom off between positions.
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The intimacies of shower sex
Sex on Tuesday
The pure intimacy of sharing a shower can also bring a false kind of connection between two strangers — one that mimics the closeness felt in relationship sex but lacks the deep meaning partners might share.
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Don’t call me daddy
Sex on Tuesday
The lack of sexual support in the media for young women is disappointing but not surprising. Step one is learning to be cognizant of the media we consume.
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