Escaping to nowhere

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While prolonged escapism in the long term is destructive, I can’t help but wonder if it’s inherently a bad thing on a smaller scale.
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The roaring 20-somethings

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“But your 20s are your golden years! The time to explore yourself, take risks, be spontaneous!” So far, it doesn’t quite seem like it.
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The case for ghosting

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I give myself permission to experience loneliness in this isolation, and I challenge myself to even come to prefer it over the company of others.
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An underrated affection

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Gift-giving — a currency I previously associated with a quid pro quo to give an equally touching gift — began to feel like a really sensible way to love.
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Being me, shamelessly

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The effects of living in a society full of judgment for mentally ill people don’t go away just because you know something shouldn’t be the way it is.
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Following life’s lede

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I’ve never viewed my indecisiveness as a positive trait, but it’s given me countless opportunities, one of them journalism.
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To be unmoved

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It’s hard to love yourself when it seems as though your heartstrings are broken, unattached to the thing that’s supposed to move you.
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Searching for my reasons

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Intrinsic motivation is radically personal. Our interests operate in a private realm where they need no justification beyond our own beliefs.
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