How to have car sex
Sex on Tuesday
My obsession with her became a sort of narcissism, an infatuation with myself as understood by her touching me, and my feeling it.
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That time we had sex
Sex on Tuesday
“If we’re both here and we both like each other, why can’t we figure out what we could be?”
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Flirting with my friends
Sex on Tuesday
Eroticism and friendship aren’t mutually exclusive, and I feel erotically toward some of my favorite friends. Even those I don’t want to have sex with.
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My girlfriend’s girlfriend
Sex on Tuesday
I enter open relationships not as a ready participant in the established guidelines but as an interloper. I am always sure that I might be the exception.
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Pride means abolish the police
Sex on Tuesday
I remember my first Pride, and what it meant to me. But I am not nostalgic for it. I don’t want it again. I don’t have anything to mourn with its loss.
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Escape to Sweden
Sex on Tuesday
My first day on birth control marked the first day of my yearlong celibacy. I didn’t seek out abstinence, or desire it. But my body had other plans.
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My sexual resume, or lack thereof
Sex on Tuesday
Everywhere I looked, sex was there looking right back at me — for better or for worse.
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Beyond ‘no means no’
Sex on Tuesday
Pretending like rapists don’t know what unambiguous, enthusiastic consent looks like is on the same wavelength as blaming sexual assault survivors for wearing revealing clothing.
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Your best American girl
Sex on Tuesday
None of these reasons felt as insurmountable as the fact that we came from different cultural understandings of the world.
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Faking it
Sex on Tuesday
I won’t fake anything anymore. I’ve swapped out my performances for honesty — so yes, I will tell you if I did not orgasm in bed.
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