friendships

School and work can’t be used as a social crutch forever. Some of the closest friends I’ve made have been at apartment complexes or community center pools. The pool is America’s new third place, and what a refreshing one we need in this heat!

Although on the outside this phenomenon may appear sad or even regretful, I don’t think it’s anything to be ashamed of. Sure, “friends come and go,” but I’ve learned that they come and go for a reason.

While I’m still getting used to calling Berkeley my home, these are my experiences this semester. I want to offer some insight on the transition to other prospective transfers and also reflect on the growth and strength it takes to choose to take on a whole new journey.

My controversial take, however, is that long-distance friendships are sometimes a little more tricky to maintain than long-distance relationships. So here I am, creating this formal rulebook of the do’s and don’ts of long-distance friendships. 

Unfortunately, sorority girls are observant. Like I said, there are no secrets beyond our perfectly manicured lawns and Greek letters.

Knowing that I'm a homebody who prefers the familiar, you’d think I would’ve done a better job at keeping in touch with my childhood friends.

Since arriving in the United States, I’ve stumbled upon the concept of racial identity. In Mexico, we don’t talk about race.

Alcohol doesn't solve problems, I know. But maybe, the friends who drink with you, listen to you and give you hugs at the end of the night do. 

I’ve mostly forgotten about my New Year's resolutions, and you probably forgot yours too. Now's a good time to think about why you made them in the first place.