31 Flavors
Sex on Tuesday
Over time, by choosing to love myself, I have come to see that I’m not responsible for the way that people perceive me.
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FedEx sperm
Hopping the Pond
I was an only child with lesbian parents; my genetic father was somewhere out there. I’d reached a clear understanding, and shame subsided for acceptance.
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Daddy Issues
Sex on Tuesday
It took me 22 years to embrace my actual identity and understand that what I thought was an attraction to men was actually an outright addiction to the male gaze.
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Heterosexuality is not the blueprint
Thinking Outside the Binary
There is nothing inherently natural or normal about heterosexuality; it has simply been institutionalized as the acceptable and legal sexuality.
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On compulsory heterosexuality
Thinking Outside the Binary
Comphet wasn’t just a naturally occurring system in my lesbian brain. It was instilled in me, beginning at a very young age.
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‘Dirty’ lesbian
Thinking Outside the Binary
I couldn’t be a lesbian. Not because I was certain I liked men as well as girls, but because I didn’t want to be treated as less than human.
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The L-word
Sex on Tuesday
What kinds of desire have I ignored toward the goal of rendering myself simple enough to be legible to my family?
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The Daughters takes a loving look at evolving queer community
Through the characters of Shorty, Griff and Jefferson, the play also zeros in on the exclusionary transphobia that persists in some areas of the lesbian movement.
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Indiana Jones is a lesbian
At times, the ordeal that has been coming to terms with my sexuality has felt much like an Indiana Jones escapade …
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Not sorry for all of my lesbian sins
Unsettled Settler
After my family learned I was a lesbian, I separated myself from church because of their homophobic treatment toward me. But now that I’ve become aware of its true history and purposes in Latin America, not only do I not want to be associated with it for its homophobic rhetoric, but also for its undeniable role as colonizers.
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