Romance, and other terrors
Sex on Tuesday
When people tell me that they think Halloween is a peculiar date for an anniversary, I think I’ll start responding by saying: “Is it really?”
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Home is where catcalling isn’t
Sex on Tuesday
I struggled to surrender myself to my femininity; without realizing it, I was bringing the defensiveness I met the outside world with into our studio.
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The toilet guy
Sex on Tuesday
This wouldn’t be the last time I haphazardly gave my body to somebody whose name I didn’t know. Desperately, I wanted to feel desired.
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In between the redwoods
Sex on Tuesday
She said to me, “You are my home,” and we cried until we couldn’t tell the chlorinated water apart from the tears streaming down our faces.
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Cold girl summer
Sex on Tuesday
If you have been keeping up with my column until now, you have probably realized that I don’t have very much sex (which is, to say the least, ironic considering I write this column).
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Interabled sex and the city
Embracing Visibility
I like to think I have as much sex as your average 22-year-old, if not more. Honestly, you’d be surprised how much sex people with ostomies have.
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Post-sex chatting
Sex on Tuesday
After regaining our strength, we slowly got up and put on our clothes. While my hookup had shown no interest in talking to me before having sex, he seemed more open to chatting after.
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Queer men as a spectacle for straight women
Sex on Tuesday
Instead of treating queer sex and relationships as something normal and human, these straight women treat queer men in sexual or romantic acts like a guilty pleasure, which contributes to their dehumanization.
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Have a hot girl summer
Sex on Tuesday
When a woman wants to have casual sex, do we need a term for it? Are phrases like “hoe phase” or “hot girl summer” attempts to justify our sex lives?
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Sleeping with a stranger
Sex on Tuesday
People often say there is so much you can learn from strangers. I’ve found that to be especially true in having sex with them.
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