Cold girl summer
Sex on Tuesday
If you have been keeping up with my column until now, you have probably realized that I don’t have very much sex (which is, to say the least, ironic considering I write this column).
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Interabled sex and the city
Embracing Visibility
I like to think I have as much sex as your average 22-year-old, if not more. Honestly, you’d be surprised how much sex people with ostomies have.
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Post-sex chatting
Sex on Tuesday
After regaining our strength, we slowly got up and put on our clothes. While my hookup had shown no interest in talking to me before having sex, he seemed more open to chatting after.
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Queer men as a spectacle for straight women
Sex on Tuesday
Instead of treating queer sex and relationships as something normal and human, these straight women treat queer men in sexual or romantic acts like a guilty pleasure, which contributes to their dehumanization.
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Have a hot girl summer
Sex on Tuesday
When a woman wants to have casual sex, do we need a term for it? Are phrases like “hoe phase” or “hot girl summer” attempts to justify our sex lives?
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Sleeping with a stranger
Sex on Tuesday
People often say there is so much you can learn from strangers. I’ve found that to be especially true in having sex with them.
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See no sex, hear no sex
Cal in Color
I quickly came to learn that the “s-word” was something to tip-toe around at home, something we acted like didn’t exist, that was fully off-limits.
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Sexualizing the self
Sex on Tuesday
Part of being hyperaware of your body from a young age comes with an underlying sense of hatred. I hated feeling eyes on my body.
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Pass the sugar
Sex on Tuesday
Being a sugar baby goes beyond just superficial beauty. It’s almost a talent, a display of confidence, to capitalize on men’s desires to fulfill a “daddy” or protector role.
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One step a-head
Sex on Tuesday
If his head game is weak, he better believe I’ll be matching it, and if his head game is nonexistent, as is often the case, mine will be, too.
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