Sex on Friday
Cal in Color
Sociocultural ideologies have affected my understanding and approach to not just my sexuality, but to women in general.
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The toilet guy
Sex on Tuesday
This wouldn’t be the last time I haphazardly gave my body to somebody whose name I didn’t know. Desperately, I wanted to feel desired.
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Growing up a kinky virgin
Even though my first time may not have been the pure ecstasy I wanted, it confirmed what I held in my mind to be true: You can be a virgin and still have kinks.
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Bleeding for the Armenian patriarchy
Sex on Tuesday
By having sex, I’ve tried to sever ties with the culture that equated my worth to my unpierced hymen and has so blatantly taught me, along with other Armenian women, that our virginity is the sole source of our value. Although in the eyes of many people in my community, I am impure for having premarital sex, I am at peace knowing that I had sex on my own terms.
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How I lost my virginity
In the past, they suffered from the pressure to keep virginity. Nowadays, pressure comes from both sides — we’re expected to both keep and get rid of virginity.
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Close encounters of a virgin kind
Sex on Tuesday
I finally feel ready to have sex — but my body won’t cooperate. It’s incredibly frustrating to be unable to make this decision for myself.
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Waiting for the wedding bells
Sex on Tuesday
This semester I made a new friend. A special friend. She is cute. She is funny. She is a virgin. Her name is Sherane. Despite our contrasting sexual histories, we get along well, and we’re clearly attracted to one another. The other night, I went over to her place to
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The (second) first time
Sex on Tuesday
I was nervous, drunk and extremely self-conscious. For a minute we just stared at each other, and I couldn’t believe adorable skater girl was actually in my room. And then we collided and started making out and shoving and stripping. She knew exactly what to do and exactly what I wanted.
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